http://www.nytimes.com/2007/01/19/nyregion/19grand.html?ex=157680000&en=7c41495c7927b3d2&ei=5124&partner=permalink&exprod=permalink
my heart goes out to the grandparents...but even more so to the grandchildren. doesn't this give the 9/11 attackers exactly what they want by having families in america tear itself apart, one family at a time? wasn't 9/11 enough pain?